Most people believe that children from poor families lose out due to a lack of resources, but that's not the main issue; they lose out in terms of mental resilience. Resources, background, and money essentially serve to preserve opportunities for trial and error. The real reason children from low-income families find it hard to move up is that they simply cannot afford the losses that come from failure. After a failure, they have to give up because they don’t have the money to try again; there’s no chance for another attempt. In contrast, children from wealthy families can start over even afte

When you feel like you "can't hold on any longer," you have actually endured all the moments you thought you couldn't get through. The moment you are experiencing the cold also means that the cold is passing.

In fact, one obvious characteristic of a good change is that it requires a shift in social circles. You may suddenly realize that you and some people you have known for a long time are going in different directions. The end of these old relationships sounds very regrettable, but it also indicates that you need to start accepting a new lifestyle, new information, and engage with better networking resources. Therefore, falling out with old friends or a sudden end to a relationship is not always a bad thing; it means you are starting to change your luck.

A person's character depends on their ability to view problems from multiple perspectives. Those with a single perspective tend to be stubborn, while those with diverse viewpoints demonstrate greater wisdom, peace, and tolerance. So when you see that their character is good, it actually means their mind is good.

Read when you don't have to take exams, learn to invest when you don't lack money, take care of your health when you are not sick, cultivate friendships when you don't feel lonely, and fall in love when you are already happy being alone.

Friend's mentality: Not holding grudges is what a god would do. I have always repaid grudges; my temper depends on the person. Whatever your worth, that's the expression I'll have. I might take down 800 enemies but will also suffer 3000 losses, yet I will still take you out.

How to protect your energy? The more people there are, the more chaotic the magnetic field becomes, so reduce your presence. Stay away from uncomfortable people; the magnetic fields are different. Speak less, cultivate your energy, avoid arguing with others, and protect your energy. Try to stay in well-ventilated places; if you feel uncomfortable somewhere, be sure to distance yourself. The purer the energy, the more accurate your intuition becomes, and the higher your standards for the things around you, which is a normal phenomenon. When encountering contrarians and negative energy people, t

Everything nourishes you, you must love yourself, you are love itself. Because all things in the world nourish you: vegetables and fruits, sunlight and air nourish you, love you, and you can give nothing in return; mountains and rivers, the universe and stars nourish you, love you, and you can give nothing in return. Everything in the world nourishes you unconditionally and without asking for anything in return, loves you, only you have forgotten yourself for too long, all experiences are just reminders that loving yourself does not seek outside; you are love itself. Human life is just an expe

If your annual income has not exceeded 300,000, then there is no need to put too much effort into cognition. You must strive to improve your terrifying execution ability by any means necessary. Especially when you are still an ordinary person at the bottom, not a lucky child, nor a genius player, the way for you to turn the tables is to boldly enhance your execution ability. It can give you the confidence to rise even when you are at the bottom; execution ability means that your products can generate output, and with currency, you can break free from the bottom. Three simple ways to improve ex

If you want your child to have a future, don't pay too much attention to school education, but make sure to start exposing them to five areas from a young age: Blockchain and cryptocurrencies, Artificial Intelligence and Bots technology, Biotechnology and gene editing, Energy storage technology, Space economy and automated transportation.

In China, many people make do in big cities, and when their parents see that they haven't made a name for themselves after a few years, they advise them to return to their hometown. At this point, the criteria are simple: look at whether your parents have the capability. If your parents are capable, living in a villa in the hometown and driving a car worth hundreds of thousands, then returning won't be tough. If your parents are ordinary, living in a regular community and driving a car worth tens of thousands, or even if the father works hard but struggles to support the family while the mothe

We cannot exhaust all possibilities in life, and life is likely composed of a series of random choices. The reason you are you, different from others, is that at each fork in the road, you chose this path while others chose another, leading to different outcomes, much like navigating a maze. There is a short story called "The Station", which tells the story of a person who wakes up in the morning, brushes their teeth, has breakfast, and then goes to work. In the first chapter, he catches the bus and successfully goes to work; in the second chapter, nearly all the processes are the same, but he

From a certain perspective, there is not much competitive pressure in this society. Don't worry, the competitive pressure is very small because most people lack the ability to think. Is 99% of the people in the market like this? Society is very restless; everyone only cares about immediate benefits. Did I make money today? If I made money today, I laugh; if I didn't make money tomorrow, I frown. They will never think about what I will become in ten years, so I should think about what losses I should bear now for the fruit of ten years later. The reason why people are advanced is that they have

Anyone who invests should walk on two legs: one is a stable income that is just enough to cover expenses, and the other is an All-In asset in a field you understand.

Those who cannot let go of their pride will eventually be burdened by it. Pride is the protective color of the weak; the more insecure one is, the more they need to put on a show. The more incapable they are, the more they pretend to be profound. True dignity never requires deliberate display. Those with real strength disdain to flaunt their status; those who are rich in spirit do not need luxury brands to validate their worth. Pride cannot support true capability, and vanity cannot fill the emptiness within. Only by not being trapped by pride can one truly live freely: not driven by vanity, o

Once there was a Chinese person who proudly told a foreigner, "China is developing particularly well, our lives are very convenient, even if it's 2 a.m., you can have anything delivered, so we are very happy." The foreigner, looking confused, said, "At 2 a.m., shouldn't you be resting? Why are people still working?"

The biggest characteristic of people with low cognition is that they can never empathize with your dimension. You speak in logic, but he listens to emotions. You talk about structure, and he wonders if you look down on him. You reason, and he plays the emotional card. Communicating with people of low cognition is a huge drain, because you are simply not on the same channel. You analyze cause and effect, and he questions whether you are too cold-blooded, and in the end, you have to give up the conversation. Trying to awaken a brain that lacks self-reflection ability is itself futile. People wit

The first principle of learning is self-study, not listening to lectures. The first principle of love is selection, not cultivation. The first principle of maturity is gray cognition, not black and white. The first principle of networking is resource exchange, not humble flattery. The first principle of the workplace is merit, not hard work. The first principle of freedom is self-discipline, not permissiveness.

Lack of assertiveness and decision-making ability stems from not believing in oneself to make good choices, so you tend to ask others for guidance, hoping they will directly tell you what is right. Even when you manage to make a decision, you are not firm about it; if someone comes along and says that's not right, you start to hesitate again, thinking they might be right too. Let's talk about the origins of this issue, which usually comes from two aspects. First, when you were a child, you never had the opportunity to make decisions. For example, when your parents asked you and you said A, the

The more indifferent you are, the smoother things will go; never worry in advance. The more relaxed you are, the better the results will be. The better your mindset, the better your life will be. The less you care, the smoother things will go. Respect all voices, but only be yourself. If you want the best things in the world, you must first let the world see the best of you. So, when you are no longer eager for quick success, start to drop your expectations, and remain optimistic, everything beautiful will come naturally.